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Happy Anniversary

Colossians 3:13
13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

So my husband and I had are 3rd anniversary this week but instead of celebrating like most people do. We got in a huge fight and ended up getting counseled by his parents. When I got to work yesterday the agenda for Sunday is forgiveness and this was one of the verses that the pastor was using. It made me think that we over reached on stupid little things and we should of been happy on that day.

My in-laws told us that God likes to test you on your special day (My husbands family is very religious I am but not to that point) they had a point to what they said we were being tested. We both had different expectations when we got home. I wanted to spend the evening together he wanted me to be all tidied up along with the house. Our minds weren't on the same page we weren't on the same page.

So instead of holding a grudge I'm going to forgive him on everything he said to me. Even if he isn't over it yet, I need to show that I am mature and know better to act like a child. (My physiologist/counselor is helping me with some issues) So I'm not gonna pout like a little kid I'm going to be an adult.

P.S.
With all the medication I'm on I need to see someone I'm not crazy lol   

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