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Being a mom you cook, clean, drive, go to the park, and whatever other needs there is to take care of your kid or kids you sacrifice a lot. I myself am talking from experience I stopped taking care of myself like I should of I was so exhausted by the end of the day I didn't realise what I was doing to my body and my mind.

My husband and I got so irritated with each other because I was so stressed and didn't want to do anything. We came to the point of talking about divorce now since I spent so much time focusing on my child I forgot about the one man who loves me so much he helped me again a child. I neglected him I wasn't asking him how his day was I didn't talk to home like I should of been.

Because of everything I did where I stopped thinking of myself and my husband. I have to see someone and talk to someone cause I have depression and more. My depression comes from 2 places my meds and my attitude on taking care of myself. I know where I have epilepsy I should be taking care of myself but I also know that I need to take care of myself as well. It's a tough thing and no mom should go though this no person in general. 

So my job now instead of just being a mom is being a wife and mom a woman who loves her family.

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