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I always encourage change, and the answer to this reasoning is because if you don't change things up here and there, you get in a rut.

Trust me, it's not fun.

Change is a way to find out what in life works and what doesn't if you don't open yourself up to change, you may never find something that'll genuinely make you happy. Change is constantly happening in life, so why not open up to it? Why not invite it into your life. See what can happen, see what is different embrace it. I know if I wouldn't have learned to embrace change in my life.

Here's the thing change isn't easy to let into your life it's like climbing a mountain it's easy at first fun and exciting than it gets harder and more treacherous the father you climb, but in the end when you make it to the top it's worth it.

Sometimes when you want to change, you have to make it yourself. The world may constantly be changing around you, but sometimes it doesn't come your way; sometimes you have to open your own doors. If you're not happy with where you are in life, you do have the power to change it. You have the power to become whatever you want. Open your own doors you don't have to wait for someone to come open it for you.

Be the change that you wish to see in the world 
― Mahatma Gandhi

We can't avoid change as much as we would love to. It's bound to happen sooner or later so the best advice is to step back and let it happen. 


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